Tuesday, January 12, 2010

wedding planning depression...

i'm having a bit of a 'bridezilla'-ish moment...
nothing in particular has caused it, and it's not directed at anyONE, but i'm just questioning everything and thinking about things. this could be attributed to the oncoming sinus infection.

things such as:
will my wedding go the way i want it to?
will it be able to even hold a candle to the other weddings that have been there in the past?
is one day enough time to get everything decorated/setup?
will tom be able to finagle a sound system outside?
is there a huge to-do list out there somewhere that's specific to ME and me only? ha!

i know it'll work out...if anything, we have a place, a photographer, a pastor, and us. so if all else fails, we just need a marriage certificate, right? at least that much is for sure!

i need to get over this, and quickly because there is a ton of work to do.
plus, i have to help with my friend amanda's wedding that i'm in too!
so, wish me luck and feel free to pass on words of encouragement - i definitely need them.

4 comments:

  1. Aww, I hope you move past that feeling. Everything will work out - scout's honor! If you need any help, let me know, seriously.

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  2. This is what everyone kept saying to me, and I (thankfully) found it to be true: The most important thing is you are marrying the love of your life. Nothing else matters. :) And on the day of your wedding, everything will come together perfectly. And anything that doesn't won't matter to you at all.

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  3. awww...everything will work out just fine Rayna! You're going to be a beautiful bride and it will do nothing but cause your heart to ache if you try to compare your wedding to that of anyone else! Stay true to you and Tom and you'll love every bit of it!

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  4. awww...thanks so much for the encouraging words! you guys are the greatest!! ;)

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